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10 Ways You Can Be Your Own Best Friend

Adopt these practices, and life won’t feel so hard

7 min readMay 12, 2025

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It’s wise to be your own best friend. That way, you’ve always got somebody cheering in your corner, encouraging you to succeed, and ensuring you’re as happy as possible.

On the flip side, people who are their own worst enemies put themselves down with discouragement. When you behave like a beloved pal instead, you want the best for yourself and do your utmost to get it.

But how can you cut through old, unhelpful behavior patterns? How can you stop hurting yourself if your confidence is low or you can’t think of a better way?

Take a step-by-step approach, applying these 10 behaviors, and life will change. You’ll gain self-esteem, inspire respect from others, and things will improve in more ways than you can imagine.

10 Bestie Behaviors to Adopt

Content list (so you can skip to where you want to read).
Learn to like yourself
Cheer in your corner
Forgive yourself
Stop comparing yourself to others
Nurture positive self-talk
Keep a sense of humor
Practice getting up when you’re down
Celebrate your successes
Recognize that your mistakes lead to personal growth
Validate yourself

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✨ Bridget Webber
✨ Bridget Webber

Written by ✨ Bridget Webber

Compassion, wisdom, and psychology. Mental health, former counselor. Loves lamas, the cool side of the pillow, puddles, and humor. Dunks biscuits. Wants peace.

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