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No More Complaining!
Complaints are affirmation of victimhood
Hello, dear readers!
Today, as every day, I am grateful for my team of guides, who have once again pointed out another lesson. I am also thankful for my children, who assist me in my spiritual growth. They slowly but surely free me from the controlling expectations I tend to hold on to as if my life depended on them, allowing me to release the heavy burden.
I am about to share a few complaints of mine that drain my energy. Even though you might think outsourcing is causing it, the truth is that I am feeding into it and giving it the power to provoke an adverse reaction in me, depleting me of my reserves that I should use for more important things.
I share this because I am sure it will resonate in one area or another of your own journey.
My daughter’s room looks like the image I provide above literally every day. I have no idea how it is possible when I constantly ask her to go to her room and pick it up — I mean two to three times a day.
I have mastered not getting angry, speaking out loud, or giving long speeches, but not by choice. My body began to keep score every time it happened, so I knew how I was handling the situation was physically taking a toll on me, plus putting a damper on our relationship. While…