Only True Relationships Stand The Test of Fire

Emotional validation is an important part of healthy relationships strongly rooted in the values of empathy, compassion and mutual understanding.

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2 min readJul 3, 2024

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In hay days you may be surrounded by people who hold a significant place in your life. You could have struck upon various ways to be in touch with your social circle of friends, family or even strangers through occasional meetings, sending messages, carrying on conversations for hours or a few moments. You tend to spend a considerable amount of energy and time for making the

relationships work smoothly by lending a listening ear to be a part of their lives. It is the process of mutual understanding and communication that allows for a productive exchange of ideas and thoughts.

In adverse circumstances most of the relations fall apart leaving you lighter like a plant which gets rid of the dead or superfluous twigs and branches after pruning, though simultaneously opening new realms of growth and development.

It is the genuine ones that remain with you in severe conditions. Their magnanimous heart continues to provide support to you till you become strong enough to deal with the pain. Their number may be minimal but they stand firmly by your side in all kinds of circumstances to provide you support and respect unconditionally.

With the passing of time you learn the art of letting go of the negative relations and moving forward with a little sunshine in the company of positive people.

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At this stage of life you don’t carry an unnecessary weight of unreasonable expectations as you move on to a new level of understanding which makes you feel light as a feather.

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