Do not criticize, condemn or complain

By reading First part of the Book we may understand the key point that Human nature in action, wrongdoers, blaming everybody but themselves. We are all kind of people who don’t criticize themselves for anything, no matter how wrong it may be. Moreover, you cannot criticize somebody else, you should be responsible for your actions and by criticizing someone you will only get on their nerves. It is better to understand person and give advices than blaming. There are even sorrowful examples when condemning drove great people to suicide.

Benjamin Franklin, tactless in his youth, became so diplomatic, so adroit at handling people, that he was made American Ambassador to France. The secret of his success? “I will speak ill of no man,” he said, “ . . and speak all the good I know of everybody.” Be tactic, think 7 times before doing or saying something, keeping silence never harmed anyone yet, so be wiser.

Instead of condemning people, let’s try to understand them. Let’s try to figure out why they do what they do. That’s a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness. “To know all is to forgive all.”