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I’m a working mom who took a weekend alone to recharge. Here’s how my husband and I made it a success.

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“There’s nothing wrong with using your strategic absence to tackle a work project,” writes Melissa Petro — but she made the time restorative too.

Melissa Petro with her youngest child.
Melissa Petro with her youngest child. Photo: Melissa Petro

By Melissa Petro

A lot of moms spend their “day off” just like any other: cleaning up messes and watching the kids. In year’s past, I’ve been that worn-out momma.

For example, there have been many Mother’s Days when after opening my gift and shoveling down breakfast in bed, life would go back to normal, with a deluge of diapers to change and dishes in the sink.

But not this year.

This past Mother’s Day, I skipped the subtle hints and gave myself the one gift I wanted more than anything else: an entire weekend by myself.

No shouting toddlers. No waking up in the middle of the night. No endless list of chores. Just utter quiet and complete solitude. Hour after hour to do whatever I desired.

Fellow working moms, can you even imagine?

Even though Mother’s Day has passed, it’s not too late to coordinate your own escape. While many moms find it difficult to justify leaving their families, taking time and space for ourselves is not only good for us — it’s good…

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