When people get disappointed with their lives they become LOSERS.

When people have expectations towards their lives, instead of having them towards themselves, they lose.

When people don’t realize that having the lives they want is on them, they lose.

When people believe that it’s life’s job to be great and offer itself to them on a silver platter (and their job is to accept the gift), they lose.

When people only wish their lives were different (and do nothing about it), they lose.

When people believe that it’s life’s job to fix itself, they lose.

When people blame others/ their pasts for the way their lives turned out, they lose.

When people believe that the time to build their lives/ futures was 20 years ago, they lose.

There are many losers out there.

Don’t be one of them!

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