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Someone Did This for Me

5 min readMar 23, 2025

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The struggle is all too real. It is harsh. It is unrelenting, and I finally hit the wall.

I like to think I am a pretty positive person and generally can let the daily annoyances that bubble up just pop away. Lately, though, these annoyances make me bristle and swear in my head.

Maybe it is because it is Lent, and it seems whenever I decide to embrace a particular penance, for example, offering up my frustrations with the endless conversations my daughter has with herself when I know she wants something from me but just doesn’t want to come ask, the struggles seem to multiply like the Tribbles in Star Trek.

Or my spouse, now retired, who still seems to think that whatever he does is WAY more important than anything I am doing, and I need to stop whatever it is and help him figure out how to set up a spreadsheet in Google Sheets has been frustrating me to no end.

On top of this, there is nothing he asks from me that takes “only a second”, and before I know it the sun has set and I have done nothing toward any of the things that move me toward my spiritual goals or my goals for writing or other things.

Mom figured it out

Many years ago when I was a new mom, I was able to travel to Kansas City to see my family. I…

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The first Christians were called The Way: They found a way to live and follow Home.

Barbara Cleary
Barbara Cleary

Written by Barbara Cleary

Catholic wife/mom/Nan to four grandchildren. Writing about my faith, and life in a chaotic multigenerational home while trying to see the humor in it all.

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