Five Reasons Not to Polyamour your Life Away
Polyamorous “relationships” are the Crap on our Culture’s Boots
This “lifestyle” is a way for pseudo-intellectuals to pass off their inability to level-up in morality and the selfless sacrifices required of real love as some kind of euphoric, new-age, self-love-centered satisfaction.
It’s not satisfying. It’s tragic, and it fails society on every level, but most especially in our fulfillment. Do you want to be the type that sits on a beach with a cold beer in your hand and have nothing better to say than “#doesntsuck”? Or do you want to have some fire in your veins?
1)Polyamory prevents men from reaching the full capacity of their masculine nature which leaves them far from satisfied. It softens men, and robs them entirely of instinctive joy by allowing them to give up the innate desire to protect their woman in exchange for easy, frequent sex without any real sacrifice. Without the obligation of providing for these women, their nature is stunted. It also leads them to take the skills of conquering for granted. They have no need for such skills in a poly-amorous world. Why be a man at all?
2)Ummm… STDs? Anyone!!? Like, damn. That’s disgusting. Need I say more?
3)This isn’t a new concept. You’re not a rebel shoving it to the patriarchy. This has been done before, and it’s not led to happy societies. There is no evil “patriarch” telling you to stop screwing every person you claim to “love”. You’re not defying any authority. You are being selfish and reckless, and that’s why most of society will not join you. We don’t want our kids subjected to multiple random perverts traipsing through our homes. Honestly, what kind of childhood did you have that you would inflict this on your kids? You want to rebel against all authority and therefore you are too irresponsible and immature to have the authority it takes to raise children.
4)Sex has the capacity to create a baby, EVERY time. This is always possible in heterosexual relations. Please tell me how cool it’s going to be to find out who the baby-daddy is! Is this a game in your circles? Instead of gender reveal parties you can have paternity parties! Yay!!! Ugh… please, no. And if you think it’s fair to subject a baby to execution because you want to have lots and lots of lustful encounters, you have GOT to get your head checked. Lust isn’t even worth it. Try some serious self-denial and watch how much happier you get. Lust is like leprosy to the soul. Your flesh should not determine your actions or lifestyle; your will and your reason should.
5)Women who choose this lifestyle tend to be dull. Like, they are “BLAH”- incarnate. They can do any number of aggressive, seductive, or interesting things and yet they somehow manage to make it all look boring. Femininity is a concept so foreign to them that it’s like bringing a playful poodle to a poker tournament. I have no idea what poker tournaments are actually like but my imagination is saying that a playful poodle would be most unwelcome, however lovely and charming. Where is your sparkle, you polyamorous women? I will tell you, you left it behind with your feminine nature.
Now, maybe I will be accused of some kind of fear, as if I perceive this life-style as a threat. I mean, duh, right? How can one woman compete with a hundred others who are willing to settle for less than my ridiculously high standards of monogamy? If you can’t beat ’em, join em! Right? Ha! I can beat them, though. I’ll get back to that.
Polyamory “doctors” and other such strange new phenomena will say that it takes a lot of “confidence” to “share” your partners. They will say that it takes lots of open communication skills and that once these things are in place, everything will be so lovely! So MUCH love! I call B.S. I say, y’all didn’t have enough friends or siblings growing up and you failed to learn how to actually share. SO, now, you are so stingy and unable to actually share the things in life worth sharing that you are overcompensating (the Emperor has no clothes-style)by sharing the ONE thing you should NEVER share! I cannot help but laugh. Forgive me. I shouldn’t laugh at you because it’s truly sad, but it’s hard. It’s really hard.
You see, it’s not our “Patriarchy” or out-dated societal customs that cause most humans to desire one, exclusive partner. It’s our very nature. Our masculine natures and our feminine natures. Our human nature. Men get A LOT out of their masculinity. Embracing it, owning it, and feeling it every day makes men feel alive and powerful. It gives them purpose to conquer, protect and provide. It gives them meaning. And when women have high standards, men rise to the occasion and they love the difficulties and challenges that they have to fight off and face in pursuit of conquering that feminine creature that caught their attention so beautifully. This is why, even now, divorced and with five children, I am confident as heck that I can stand out above a hundred dull women with low standards. Femininity is becoming a rare and enchanting attribute, and refining mine has been my life’s work.
It’s unfortunate that feminine women are so far and few between that I can actually have this kind of confidence. In all honesty, I wish this was not the case, even if it suits me, personally. If there were more femininity in this world we’re living in today, girls would be set up for happier marriages. Femininity still does exist, but it has become diluted so badly that now it’s only enough to keep the men attracted to us as a general species. They are giving up on true, happy marriage because there is not enough femininity in your average, individual woman to make her worth giving up freedom for. They need serious inspiration in order to make such a sacrifice. I have seen how they thirst for this inspiration. Nothing stirs the soul of a man like a feminine woman who knows her worth *as a woman*.
Let’s get it together, ladies. The children need us.
