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5 Signs You’re Being Played by a ‘Victim’

Thomas Fiffer pinpoints 5 signs that a ‘victim-player’ is playing you and shares 5 traits of true survivors.

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By Thomas Fiffer

Well you are such an easy evil
Such a sensuous sin
Sometimes I don’t know where I’m going
‘Till I’ve been taken in
— Alan O’Day, Easy Evil




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