Change Becomes You
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Change Becomes You

“Big Dick Energy”

Why is it socially acceptable to shame men’s bodies?

Once upon a time, somebody decided that this is the guy for me.

Note the gigantic biceps. Note the attempt to lift a big stone ball because…why not? Note the grimace on his face. Note the obsession with lifting weights. Note the fact that this guy seems to have been born in a gym, and seems equally likely to die there.




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Rivka Wolf

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I’m the little girl who lived down the lane. Much appreciation to David Lynch. This generation of little girls are speaking for ourselves.

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