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Change Becomes You

How to Agree About Gender Equality

5 tips for navigating difficult conversations.

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Why it’s hard to agree

‘You failed to mention that women also react defensively around these issues!’

‘Yeah ok, this theory is on point.’

Fuel to the fire

Information that confirms our beliefs makes us feel good. Information that challenges our beliefs doesn’t.

— Tristan Harris | The Social Dilemma

The path to converging views

Respect each other’s blind spots

Notice what you’re focusing on

Collaborative language

‘If you stand for equality then you’re a feminist. Sorry to tell you.’ — Emma Watson

Political equality

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