Pandemic Leads to a Shifting Lens

Or how the pandemic helped my husband understand me.

photo courtesy of the author

When my husband and I were younger with small children, I was constantly bothered by the fact that my husband could walk by a mess and just keep going. It wasn’t like he was a misogynist or too good for housework. After all, we took turns cooking and doing dishes and divided other chores and childcare duties. One day…