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Change Becomes You

Sometimes It’s Not About You

This is something my wife will say to me a lot.

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By Raymond Baxter

This is something my wife will say to me a lot:

Not everything’s about you, Raymond

These arguments begin when we’re going over how she feels about something or other. She’ll tell me what’s happening and how it makes her feel. I’ll instantly…




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