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Three Ways To Unable (Versus Enable) Pessimists

What to do with chronic glass-half-empty souls.

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To set the stage to present three time-tested tools I use when I encounter chronic (toxic?) pessimists kindly ponder how chronic cynics effect you. What do you consider to be the hazards (if any) of engaging (supporting?) people who seem biased toward what’s wrong with life (versus what’s good in life)…




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