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5 Silent Signals She’s About to Leave You — Even If She Still Loves You
5 Silent Signals She’s About to Leave You — Even If She Still Loves You
Love isn’t always enough to make her stay — and these signs prove it
Kamran Khan
Apr 25
How Are You Aging Gayfully?
How Are You Aging Gayfully?
Now I am an old fart, and I love being the “old fart” because I’ve embraced AgingGayfully™.
The Good Men Project
Apr 25
The (Lloyd) Dobler Effect
The (Lloyd) Dobler Effect
We constantly make concessions to ease the discomfort of those around us.
The Good Men Project
Apr 25
Why Some Older Men Are Attracted to Younger Women
Why Some Older Men Are Attracted to Younger Women
But can we stop pretending this is cute?
Sadhvi Pharasi
Apr 24
Men, Show Me Some EQ!
Men, Show Me Some EQ!
How we rate emotional intelligence and a mindful approach to practice.
Vic Caldarola
Apr 24
How Not to Let Trump’s Tariffs Tax Your Retirement
How Not to Let Trump’s Tariffs Tax Your Retirement
We often underperform the market if our biases and fears originate from our trading decisions rather than sound financial principles.
The Good Men Project
Apr 24
This Forgotten Viktor Frankl Book is (ALMOST) as Good as “Man’s Search for Meaning”
This Forgotten Viktor Frankl Book is (ALMOST) as Good as “Man’s Search for Meaning”
11 months after being released from a Nazi concentration camp, Viktor Frankl delivered this EPIC speech.
Matt Karamazov
Apr 24
Why Planes Don’t Fly Faster?
Why Planes Don’t Fly Faster?
Airplanes Are Slower Today Than They Were 50 Years Ago
Kanwal Rai
Apr 24
Why I Want to Cycle From Leh to Khardungla?
Why I Want to Cycle From Leh to Khardungla?
Lone Wolf
Apr 24
The Power of Cravings
The Power of Cravings
Cravings are about an urgency that can make us lose our way, lose our balance, even override our principles and values.
The Good Men Project
Apr 23
How Eating 10 Eggs for Lunch Changed My Life
How Eating 10 Eggs for Lunch Changed My Life
Lone Wolf
Apr 23
Not Every Question Needs an Answer
Not Every Question Needs an Answer
“No answer is also an answer,” we say in Germany.
The Good Men Project
Apr 23
Bluesky vs. Twitter: Is Decentralized Social Media the Future in 2025?
Bluesky vs. Twitter: Is Decentralized Social Media the Future in 2025?
The Social Media Shift We Didn’t See Coming
Mohit Mavani
Apr 23
Homesick: Coming Home to America Isn’t What it Used to Be
Homesick: Coming Home to America Isn’t What it Used to Be
I learned a new definition of the word “home.” It consists, in fact, of everything you take for granted.
The Good Men Project
Apr 22
Flashback Triggers
Flashback Triggers
The flood of information they can release is astonishing.
The Good Men Project
Apr 22
Clatter
Clatter
I’m reminded of the Coca Cola commercial that plays at one-hundred decibels through the Dolby Surround Sound® system at my movie theater.
The Good Men Project
Apr 21
In the Matrix, I Am Nothing. In My Soul Essence, I Am Everything.
In the Matrix, I Am Nothing. In My Soul Essence, I Am Everything.
I’m sitting here, breathing into the morning, and feeling this truth move through me again:
Sarah Theresa Lamb
Apr 21
Why 99.7% of you will never be RICH | The Education Trap
Why 99.7% of you will never be RICH | The Education Trap
Bill Gates — co-founder of Microsoft. Mark Zuckerberg — founder of Facebook. Gautam Adani — founder of the Adani Group. Richard Branson —…
Kanwal Rai
Apr 21
Hobbies That Shaped Me: A Journey Through Passion and Time
Hobbies That Shaped Me: A Journey Through Passion and Time
Awesomeness.
The Good Men Project
Apr 20
Could Social Democracy Rise Again Around the World?
Could Social Democracy Rise Again Around the World?
Social democracy is an ideology that operates within the dynamics of capitalism and aims for an egalitarian, libertarian, and…
Dr. Burak SEN
Apr 19
Comedy Is the Answer
Comedy Is the Answer
Laughter reduces stress, eases muscle tension, increases dopamine and endorphin levels, lowers cortisol, improves cardiovascular health…
The Good Men Project
Apr 19
What a Grafted Plant Taught Me About Being Myself
What a Grafted Plant Taught Me About Being Myself
I didn’t plant my adenium. It came to me already grafted — a rootstock from one plant, the flowering top from another. Someone, somewhere…
Pratibha Singh
Apr 19
Being in Your Own Soul Frequency (and Why the Matrix Will Never Understand It)
Being in Your Own Soul Frequency (and Why the Matrix Will Never Understand It)
Loneliness doesn’t happen because you’re alone.
Sarah Theresa Lamb
Apr 19
How to Crash Land Into Genealogy (and Deal With the Fallout)
How to Crash Land Into Genealogy (and Deal With the Fallout)
Be prepared for hours of tedium and considerable confusion.
The Good Men Project
Apr 19
“I Tried 5 Passive Income Websites for 30 Days — Here’s What I Earned”
“I Tried 5 Passive Income Websites for 30 Days — Here’s What I Earned”
A personal 30-day challenge testing 5 top passive income sites. Which ones paid off? Which wasted my time? Real numbers. Real talk.
Mohit Mavani
Apr 19
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