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Cloud Nine to Ground Zero: The Perspective Shift I Didn’t See Coming
Cloud Nine to Ground Zero: The Perspective Shift I Didn’t See Coming
A lesson from a health scare.
The Good Men Project
Mar 28
You’re More Likable Than You Think
You’re More Likable Than You Think
Small habits that make people enjoy your company more than you realize.
Imash Dilhara
Mar 27
What Hiring People Get Wrong
What Hiring People Get Wrong
After more than a year of job searching, I discovered an awful contradiction that too many choose to ignore.
The Good Men Project
Mar 27
Young Men Are Being Misdirected by the ‘Manosphere’
Young Men Are Being Misdirected by the ‘Manosphere’
We must give them better ways to feel proud of themselves
The Good Men Project
Mar 27
The Purpose Trap: Why Chasing Money Leaves You Miserable
The Purpose Trap: Why Chasing Money Leaves You Miserable
How the pursuit of a high paycheck can sabotage long-term success and happiness.
Doug Utberg
Mar 27
Homemade Pet Food vs. Store-Bought: What’s Best?
Homemade Pet Food vs. Store-Bought: What’s Best?
I never imagined that I would develop an obsession with pet food labels. Yet here I am, squinting at ingredient lists as if I were…
Meet Miyani
Mar 27
TRANSHUMANISM: An Alteration of Divine Path
TRANSHUMANISM: An Alteration of Divine Path
If we alter our Divine design, we also alter our Divine path.
MST3RI
Mar 26
No Plan, No Plot — Just a Dream to Write
No Plan, No Plot — Just a Dream to Write
Is it ideal? No. Is it a spur-of-the-moment thing? Maybe. Is it going to be hard? Most definitely.
Awakened Moments
Mar 26
Please Drive Responsibly
Please Drive Responsibly
The next time someone gets in your car, feel the change of responsibility.
The Good Men Project
Mar 26
Survey: 19% of Workers Report Toxic Work Environments + Identifying and Managing Toxic Coworkers
Survey: 19% of Workers Report Toxic Work Environments + Identifying and Managing Toxic Coworkers
The APA survey highlights the significant impact of workplace toxicity on mental health, underscoring the urgency of this issue.
The Good Men Project
Mar 26
9 Simple Minimalist Health Routine in 2025
9 Simple Minimalist Health Routine in 2025
Becoming healthy and leading a happy life is a dream for us. But in reality it's hard to bring on track. Walking, workouts, diet are quite…
Sri Nandhini G
Mar 25
How Immigrants Influence the US Economy
How Immigrants Influence the US Economy
What America Forgets” is a document that, among other things, exposes the pivotal role immigrants have played in the economy, thus putting…
Mohit Mavani
Mar 25
Rage on the Page
Rage on the Page
Writing and the 12 Steps: A Boxer’s Journey
The Good Men Project
Mar 24
Deciphering the Secret Language of Your Body
Deciphering the Secret Language of Your Body
5 Steps to Understanding the Code
The Good Men Project
Mar 24
Healing Isn’t a Fairytale…it’s a Battle, and Here’s the Truth
Healing Isn’t a Fairytale…it’s a Battle, and Here’s the Truth
If you think emotional recovery means instant peace and clarity, think again.
Sadhvi Pharasi
Mar 24
I Took Drinking to the Next Level — Here’s What It Cost Me
I Took Drinking to the Next Level — Here’s What It Cost Me
This isn’t about judgment. It’s about the wake-up call I never saw coming.
The Good Men Project
Mar 23
Maybe They’re Struggling? But Why Don’t They Think That About Me?
Maybe They’re Struggling? But Why Don’t They Think That About Me?
Am I supposed to understand everything just because they’re my parents?
Sadhvi Pharasi
Mar 23
Unsticking from the endless loop
Unsticking from the endless loop
How I started to move forward.
June Capulette
Mar 23
Is This the End of Federal Education? Breaking Down Trump’s Plan to Shut Down the DOE
Is This the End of Federal Education? Breaking Down Trump’s Plan to Shut Down the DOE
President Trump wants to shut off the Department of Education (DOE). A big deal can change how schools in America function. Let us see how…
Meet Miyani
Mar 22
Coffee as Meditation: Finding Presence in Your Morning Cup
Coffee as Meditation: Finding Presence in Your Morning Cup
Your $5 latte is the most underused mindfulness tool in your wellness arsenal.
The Good Men Project
Mar 22
The Day I Choose Myself
The Day I Choose Myself
People say kindness never goes unnoticed. They say it comes back, like some karmic reward wrapped in gratitude. But they don’t tell you…
Lone Wolf
Mar 22
What If I Choose Chaos Today?
What If I Choose Chaos Today?
I don’t want to rise and shine. I want to rise and cause chaos.
Lone Wolf
Mar 21
The Journey From Disempowerment to Empowerment
The Journey From Disempowerment to Empowerment
As my beliefs changed, so did my life.
The Good Men Project
Mar 21
Global warming and extreme weather: Are you talking about more disasters ahead?
Global warming and extreme weather: Are you talking about more disasters ahead?
I still remember how my horror went watching Hurricane Ian smash Florida’s coast in 2022. The sheer force of that storm was something I had…
Meet Miyani
Mar 21
Finding Balance: The Power of Asking ‘How Am I Feeling?’
Finding Balance: The Power of Asking ‘How Am I Feeling?’
This seemingly simple question can profoundly affect our mental state and overall health.
The Good Men Project
Mar 20
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