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Master, Master: Who Is Pulling Your Strings?
Master, Master: Who Is Pulling Your Strings?
I’m solely responsible for mastering my mood, disposition, and mindset for the next four years and beyond.
The Good Men Project
Dec 9
Stillness as Active Rebellion
Stillness as Active Rebellion
The Paradox of Stillness, part two
The Good Men Project
Dec 9
Lazy to Talk on the Phone
Lazy to Talk on the Phone
What may be the underlying issue?
Biswajeet Das
Dec 9
Why You Can’t Stop Your Bad Habits
Why You Can’t Stop Your Bad Habits
Understanding the psychology behind habits to take control of your life.
Imash Dilhara
Dec 9
Schubert and Daughters
Schubert and Daughters
A Parable of Change
Keith R Wilson
Dec 9
Embracing Imperfection: The Art of Wabi-Sabi in Life and Nature
Embracing Imperfection: The Art of Wabi-Sabi in Life and Nature
By Deborah Holmen, M.Ed., NBCT
Deborah Holmén
Dec 8
Without Our Listening, Together, Who Will Hear the Rhythm of the Rain?
Without Our Listening, Together, Who Will Hear the Rhythm of the Rain?
A Poetic Commiseration and Contemplation
The Good Men Project
Dec 8
The Stages of Well-Being
The Stages of Well-Being
Why looking at well-being through the lens of developmental psychology is key.
The Good Men Project
Dec 8
Are We Eating Ourselves to Death?
Are We Eating Ourselves to Death?
Maybe, but the reason will shock you.
The Good Men Project
Dec 7
Why do People Have to Say: Be Nice?
Why do People Have to Say: Be Nice?
Isn’t it obvious? — when did we stopped practicing that?
mylifeasyash
Dec 7
Calling All Men: Welcome to the First Day of the Rest of Your Life
Calling All Men: Welcome to the First Day of the Rest of Your Life
Building Stronger Families, Communities, and a Hopeful Future
The Good Men Project
Dec 7
How to Heal from Deep Hurt
How to Heal from Deep Hurt
A practical guide to healing from betrayal and finding peace again.
Imash Dilhara
Dec 6
How to Use the Alexander Technique
How to Use the Alexander Technique
Learn what this practice is, how it’s done, and some of its benefits.
The Good Men Project
Dec 6
Healing After Betrayal: A Story of Resilience
Healing After Betrayal: A Story of Resilience
How unexpected events can lead to unexpected joy.
Daphne Laffer
Dec 6
A Day Without Depression, Anxiety, and Guilt
A Day Without Depression, Anxiety, and Guilt
It felt wonderful.
Jenn M. Wilson
Dec 6
The Crisis of Masculinity: Why Balance Is the Key to True Strength
The Crisis of Masculinity: Why Balance Is the Key to True Strength
What ideals am I embracing on the altar of masculinity?
The Good Men Project
Dec 6
Read this for 2 minutes, you’ll get 10 years of your life back:
Read this for 2 minutes, you’ll get 10 years of your life back:
5 things you should know…
Jaffar Baloch
Dec 5
Harmful Thought Patterns You Need to Stop Right Now
Harmful Thought Patterns You Need to Stop Right Now
Learn how to recognize and overcome the mental traps that hold you back.
Imash Dilhara
Dec 5
Patience Makes You Faster
Patience Makes You Faster
Like the Navy SEALs say, “Slow is smooth, and smooth is fast.”
The Good Men Project
Dec 5
Marriage Takes A LOT of work: Do you even know what that means?
Marriage Takes A LOT of work: Do you even know what that means?
Taking what I knew and trying to build a strong relationship was like taking play-doh and trying to make a time machine!
Stephen Bickle Coaching
Dec 5
5 Time-Tested Buddhist Strategies for Avoiding the “Hook” of Anger and Resentment
5 Time-Tested Buddhist Strategies for Avoiding the “Hook” of Anger and Resentment
From the globally-renowned (not that she’d care) Buddhist monk, Pema Chödrön
Matt Karamazov
Dec 5
Three Ways to Find Male Friends Who’ll Call You on Your Blind Spots (And Your Other B.S.)
Three Ways to Find Male Friends Who’ll Call You on Your Blind Spots (And Your Other B.S.)
When men change, the world changes too.
The Good Men Project
Dec 5
What Happened to “I’m sorry”?
What Happened to “I’m sorry”?
In the last couple of decades, it seems that we all as humankind, are unable to issue the simplest of apologies. Not the quick, dismissive…
Dennis • M.Sc.
Dec 4
Gratitude Isn’t Just for the Good Times — Here’s Why
Gratitude Isn’t Just for the Good Times — Here’s Why
A Thanksgiving Story
The Good Men Project
Dec 4
The Airport Guy: Judgmental or Curious?
The Airport Guy: Judgmental or Curious?
You don’t have to yell to be unkind.
The Good Men Project
Dec 4
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