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Read this for 2 minutes, you’ll get 10 years of your life back:
Read this for 2 minutes, you’ll get 10 years of your life back:
5 things you should know…
Jaffar Baloch
Dec 5
Harmful Thought Patterns You Need to Stop Right Now
Harmful Thought Patterns You Need to Stop Right Now
Learn how to recognize and overcome the mental traps that hold you back.
Imash Dilhara
Dec 5
Patience Makes You Faster
Patience Makes You Faster
Like the Navy SEALs say, “Slow is smooth, and smooth is fast.”
The Good Men Project
Dec 5
Marriage Takes A LOT of work: Do you even know what that means?
Marriage Takes A LOT of work: Do you even know what that means?
Taking what I knew and trying to build a strong relationship was like taking play-doh and trying to make a time machine!
Stephen Bickle Coaching
Dec 5
5 Time-Tested Buddhist Strategies for Avoiding the “Hook” of Anger and Resentment
5 Time-Tested Buddhist Strategies for Avoiding the “Hook” of Anger and Resentment
From the globally-renowned (not that she’d care) Buddhist monk, Pema Chödrön
Matt Karamazov
Dec 5
Three Ways to Find Male Friends Who’ll Call You on Your Blind Spots (And Your Other B.S.)
Three Ways to Find Male Friends Who’ll Call You on Your Blind Spots (And Your Other B.S.)
When men change, the world changes too.
The Good Men Project
Dec 5
What Happened to “I’m sorry”?
What Happened to “I’m sorry”?
In the last couple of decades, it seems that we all as humankind, are unable to issue the simplest of apologies. Not the quick, dismissive…
Dennis • M.Sc.
Dec 4
Gratitude Isn’t Just for the Good Times — Here’s Why
Gratitude Isn’t Just for the Good Times — Here’s Why
A Thanksgiving Story
The Good Men Project
Dec 4
The Airport Guy: Judgmental or Curious?
The Airport Guy: Judgmental or Curious?
You don’t have to yell to be unkind.
The Good Men Project
Dec 4
Why Oversharing Can Hurt More Than Help
Why Oversharing Can Hurt More Than Help
Finding the balance between openness and self-protection
Imash Dilhara
Dec 3
The Paradox of Stillness
The Paradox of Stillness
The natural world doesn’t judge my sensitivity; it accepts me for who I am.
The Good Men Project
Dec 3
You Are Somebody
You Are Somebody
As I work with targets of narcissistic abuse in my coaching practice, this is often the core work to be done.
The Good Men Project
Dec 3
Common Quotes That Do More Harm Than Good
Common Quotes That Do More Harm Than Good
How seemingly harmless advice can backfire and harm your well-being.
Imash Dilhara
Dec 2
Are People Born Wicked? Or Do They Have Wickedness Thrust Upon Them?
Are People Born Wicked? Or Do They Have Wickedness Thrust Upon Them?
A review of the blockbuster film Wicked.
The Good Men Project
Dec 2
The Myth of the Rightward Shift: In Conversation With Red State America
The Myth of the Rightward Shift: In Conversation With Red State America
I ran for office as a Democrat in a red district in a red state. Here’s what I found.
The Good Men Project
Dec 2
How Toxic Behaviors Can Ruin Your Attractiveness
How Toxic Behaviors Can Ruin Your Attractiveness
Discover how ego-driven traits like narcissism, manipulation, and insecurity can undermine your appeal and learn how to reclaim your true…
Imash Dilhara
Dec 1
This framework can help you stop caring about what others think of you:
This framework can help you stop caring about what others think of you:
It’s frustrating, isn’t it?
Jaffar Baloch
Dec 1
Silent Might
Silent Might
Why do so many of us feel uncomfortable when our words are not met by more words?
The Good Men Project
Dec 1
10 Simple (Powerful) Ways to Be Unstoppable in Life
10 Simple (Powerful) Ways to Be Unstoppable in Life
Being unstoppable is self-awareness and knowing oneself. It’s an internal vibe — a big ol’ authentic pawprint you leave on friends, people…
Mr. Mullet
Dec 1
Life Beyond Politics: A Compassionate Way to Lasting Social Change
Life Beyond Politics: A Compassionate Way to Lasting Social Change
The election is over. The results are in. Half of our country is ecstatic, and the other half is sorely disappointed, if not devastated.
The Good Men Project
Dec 1
2 Things Hurt People Do That Hurt People Without Actually Realizing
2 Things Hurt People Do That Hurt People Without Actually Realizing
Why they might be blind to it
Mónica Valverde
Nov 30
Our Love Is Stronger Than Your Hate
Our Love Is Stronger Than Your Hate
Peaceful show of unity against anti-Semitism
The Good Men Project
Nov 30
Complex Problem? Think Simple.
Complex Problem? Think Simple.
Why Complexity Isn’t Always the Answer: Embracing the Beauty of Simplicity
Nehhen R
Nov 30
Trauma vs. Drama: Bracket Creep of PTSD
Trauma vs. Drama: Bracket Creep of PTSD
Before continuing, I need to make it very clear that the intent of this post is not to minimize anyone’s experiences. The sole purpose of…
Robert Daylin Brown
Nov 29
Why We Run
Why We Run
It was 1st January 2024, and I was not a runner.
The Good Men Project
Nov 29
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