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10 Signs You’re Silently Giving Away Your Power
And keeping yourself stuck in a life you don’t really love.
I have never shared this before.
The first time I chose me was 8 years ago.
I nervously walked the beach, heart racing.
Should I really end a “happy enough” relationship to take a chance on someone I just met — because it feels right?
Shame, fear, doubt — all of it swirled in my head.
But then came another voice: You are safe. You are whole. You are worthy of exceptional love.
That was the first time I consciously let go of layers of conditioning and had the courage to listen to my heart.
For the first time, I allowed my thoughts and feelings to match my actions.
That’s what’s on the other side of healing.
Out of a sudden, everything made sense.
All the painful lessons led to this moment and helped me make the right decision — to finally stop giving my power away and start choosing what’s true for me.
But for years before that moment, I did the opposite.
Slowly, quietly, without realizing it — I gave my power away all the time.
