Stopping the Same Dating Disasters and Learning To Grow

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Have you ever wondered why you seem to date people only for them to move on to bigger and better things after their time with you? It’s as if we’re a placeholder or a test run that allows others to figure out what they want and ultimately find the relationship that sticks.

And that wouldn’t matter so much if we also found lasting love but we’re instead stuck in repetitive cycles of dating with no hope of anything lasting coming about. Maybe we are a placeholder, maybe we aren’t worthy of true love, or receiving someone’s full commitment. Are we destined to be the second option?

With that attitude, yes.

I wanted to talk about the negative mental cycle we can find ourselves stuck in when dating just isn’t going our way and how we can begin to change our fortune in future relationships.

Changing Our Fortune In Dating

For us to change our dating outcomes, we have to learn from our previous experiences. An inability to do so is the №1 reason you will find yourself cycling through the same relationship patterns time after time after time.

Why? Because most of our behaviors stem from subconscious origins. We may feel as if we are in complete control of our behaviors but we certainly aren’t. Emotional reactions…

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Joe Gibson, Above The Middle
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