Stuck Thinking About Them? Bring the Focus Back To You

One thing I continuously notice with myself is that when I am spending too much time thinking about someone else, my own life suffers. I mean, this is only logic. Time spent thinking about someone else is time away from the only place you have true control over; your own life and when we lose control of ourselves, we leave ourselves open to psychological distortions.




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