Why We Should Stop Telling Women To Be Flattered By The Attention Of Men

What I wish the younger me had known back then

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“Enjoy it while it lasts. You’ll miss the attention when you’re old,” they said.

By ‘they’ I’m referring to women. Hundreds of well-meaning, kind women who’ve said I should feel grateful and flattered that boys and men were hitting on…




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Kele Mogotsi

Kele Mogotsi

An introverted attention-seeker.

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