Why Your Partner Should Add to You Not Complete
Rethink your expectations of a partner and see that you don’t need a partner to bring you comfort in life
Many people out in this world are in search for the love of their life. Hoping they may find that person that completes them.
If you have ever relied on your partner for your happiness, this is for you.
Do you really need a prince charming to save you in order to feel complete with yourself? If so, you may want to hold on a second.
Are you searching for that mate/partner that can make you feel whole?
Well that may be because you feel incomplete yourself. When engaging in a new found partner with this mentality, it must be you believe they hold the missing piece to you. You may just want to step back for a moment and analyze what it is you are trying have this new found partner play the role of.
In looking for completion in yourself, within your partner, you are now expecting them to fulfill that role for you.
What are you left with if your partner decides they need time apart, and they go off and leave you? How ever could you feel whole and satisfied in the comforts of yourself? What if they can not be there for you every time?
Judging by the way you went in to the relationship looking for fulfillment, you will most likely come out of it with those same dreaded feelings. Except now those feelings may be even more extreme since now you have put that level of pressure in to a relationship that has fallen apart.
Ultimately, we must find a way to enjoy ourselves and respect ourselves enough to know that we can survive and prosper in our own arts whether or not we are in a committed relationship. We should not feel pressured to be in a relationship, nor feel pressured to satisfy the needs of the other.
You must be able to be satisfied with yourself before you enter in to a relationship. Now I’m not trying to say that’s factual. What I mean by that is, you should establish yourself and confide in yourself in a manner that does not rely on a prince charming. You should be able to be alone and feel complete. Otherwise there is much turmoil to be seen in future relations. Either with you or from a partner who is not complete themselves.
If you have just recently broken up a relationship or plan to: you may want to take some time for yourself before you jump right back in to one. Be confident in knowing that if it doesn’t work out in the end, you know you will always have yourself to keep you up.
Be whole with yourself to be whole with others.
We are all alone. Though we may find ourselves in the comforts of others, we still are alone. Only you can find the perfect piece to you that fits.
