You Are Not as Important as You Imagine in Your Mind

Why do you think we have so much mental suffering around us even when we are the generation of abundance?

Renuka Gavrani
Change Your Mind Change Your Life
10 min readSep 17, 2024

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Do you know what’s our problem?

The problem is we want to be the ‘most’ of everything.

We want to be the most important person in the room. We want to be the most amazing designer, writer, artist, dancer, employee, or whatever title you associate yourself with. We want to be the most beautiful person who is the center of attention for all. We want to be the most intelligent person so we keep judging ourselves based on what we don’t know and grind ourselves so we can sound better.

If you walk in, everyone must respect you for what you have achieved so young in life. Or everyone must know how kind and loving you are and must treat you as the queen/king for your exceptional behavior? People should know you don’t waste your time dumb scrolling like other people but rather invest your time in hobbies and art and so must praise you all night while you blush and say ‘Oh, come on. It’s no big deal.’

People should be able to see how you have healed yourself all alone after going through the worst of things and yet you smile so they must have sympathy yet the highest form of respect for you…

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Renuka Gavrani
Change Your Mind Change Your Life

I talk about slow & Intentional living - taking you closer to a happy life. I am a published author of the book 'The Art of Being Alone': https://a.co/d/531JIFq