Are You Sabotaging Your Success?

How to Stop

Isabel Young
Checkmate
2 min readOct 26, 2021

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What is Self Sabotage?

Self-sabotage is a tendency to do things that will stop your efforts to succeed. Self-sabotage can be found in many forms. Some of these include: procrastination, addiction, poor diet, lack of exercise and sleep. These things make it hard to achieve your goals.

Understanding Your Behavior

It is easier to fix something you’re doing wrong once you understand it.

The first step is identifying the problem.

Self-sabotage can be defined as any behavior that prevents success when success has been achieved in the past.

This often leads to self-doubt, which in turn can lead to negative thoughts and emotions that result in destructive actions.

You may be asking yourself,

“Why am I doing this?”

The answer is more complex

than just “I don’t want this.”

Stop Your Self-Sabotage:

It is important to recognize self-sabotaging thoughts and behaviors. This way you can stop doing them.

Once you have identified the patterns, make a decision not to engage in them anymore.

Memorize the decision and remind yourself every time the thoughts or behaviors occur.

When you can see your progress, celebrate your success and reward yourself.

Getting Active & Motivated

One of the most difficult tasks is to motivate yourself to be productive. Self-motivation is always the key to success, no matter what kind of work you are doing. Everyday we are faced with many challenges. You have to push your limits and take action if you want to be successful in life.

Final Thoughts:

Reasons to stop self-sabotage

We all have a strong desire to be productive and to feel good about ourselves. But this often leads us to self-sabotage.

The main reason for self-sabotage is procrastination. It’s when we decide to put off tasks that we don’t want to do. We know we need to do them but don’t take action that is necessary.

There are many other reasons for self-sabotage: perfectionism, fear of failure or rejection, lack of planning or organization skills, taking on too much responsibility and much more.

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Isabel Young
Checkmate

Motivational, Mindset, Health & Getting Better with Age - Helping people improve what they think and how they feel about themselves. https://linktr.ee/beyoung2