8 Reasons Not

Christina Lopes
Jul 7, 2015 · 8 min read

To Get Angry

With Rude People

Very upset.

I then took a deep, conscious breath.

And I use this episode frequently, when teaching about the transformational power of love and compassion.

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1.

They are in pain.

Tip 1:

“I acknowledge and feel your pain.”

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2.

They may be simply passing on what they receive from others.

What’s important to realize here is that we always have a choice on whether we want to perpetuate an energetic cycle of anger or love.

Tip 2:

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3.

They unconsciously feel they deserve to live like this.

Tip 3:

“You deserve kindness and compassion.”

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4.

They are reacting from the ego, not responding from the heart.

It doesn’t react to life, it responds to it.

Tip 4:

“I am present and listening with my heart.”

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5.

They can change in an instant.

Tip 5:

“We all have the capacity to change.”

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6.

They are unconsciously asking for compassion and kindness.

But we can train ourselves to be what I call “Soul Seekers”.

Tip 6:

“I am a Soul Seeker and I see the beauty in your heart.”

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7.

They may be showing you something about yourself.

If we find ourselves in an angry situation, we can assume anger exists in us on some level.

Tip 7:

“What am I angry about?”

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8.

They are your greatest teachers.

Do we want to live from the prism of ego and be reactive?

Or do we want to live from the prism of the heart and be responsive?

Tip 8:

“What are you here to teach me?”

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Be brave. Choose love. Even when anger seems easier.


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