Rewrite your love story to truly belong…

Healing your relationship with your family of origin helps you stop making excuses about why you are the way you are.

Sarah Lauren
Clear Yo Mind
Published in
7 min readJun 16, 2024

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No one can unconditionally meet your needs, but you can source unconditional love, commitment, and respect from within.

By looking at how your family shaped your dating and relationship habits, you can develop self-compassion and become someone who attracts your deepest desires. Don’t rely on family members to change how they behave.

No matter how other people in your life relate to you, you can unlearn patterns of behavior. This liberation allows you to show up authentically.

With a deeper understanding, you can come home to yourself and harness your parents’ legacy.

Photo by Omar Lopez on Unsplash

All of us experience unmet needs as children. We feel we didn’t receive the love, safety, belonging, attention, or respect we craved. Not getting what you need poses a potential death threat to a small child. These unmet needs create insatiable desires that carry over into adulthood.

The unconscious part of you that was terrified of death suffers until you acknowledge its pain.

The Impact of Parental Patterns

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Sarah Lauren
Clear Yo Mind

The only thing I know for sure is I know nothing.