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Do I Ever Get to Stop Blaming Myself for Cheating on My Husband?

The shame is gone, but the blame lives on

Photo by Norman Toth on Unsplash

I can’t think of a single reason to justify blaming myself. Can you?

Does it give me more confidence in myself? Nope. Just the opposite.




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