The Best Lesson From The Worst Of Experiences

Some Mistakes You Only Make Once

Sreese
Reese — For The Record

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When I was a kid, I got mad at a friend and broke a window. My dad was mad at me but cooled down quickly and said, “Some mistakes you only make once.” I’ve never forgotten that.

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Everybody makes mistakes. Some of us get lucky. We get second chances before it’s too late. Sometimes we get taught lessons to ensure the errors aren’t repeated.

We were having a party for a co-worker one night after work. We’d all gone to a bar to have a few drinks to celebrate his new position. Nobody got crazy, but it’s not hard to drink to the point where you shouldn’t drive. I was in my mid-20’s at the time. I thought I was invincible, and I thought I was more intelligent than I really was. I could drive after only a few drinks. Not a problem for me, bro.

I’d had only two beers. I forgot I’d also had two shots. Oh, and the two beers were in 24-ounce glasses. I only stayed for an hour.

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I didn’t see a car in my blind spot while driving away from the bar. He laid on his horn as I veered into his lane. He hauled on his breaks, and I swerved back and just missed. I still…

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Sreese
Reese — For The Record

Western New Yorker, musician, construction supply chain veteran, memoirist, never say never-ist. Top Writer in Sports and 2x Top Writer in Music.