divisions
We are part of this society where we inherit division from birth & unfortunate one gets popped out after few months in womb for same.
You are a girl :
- Behave well
- Wear properly
- Talk properly
- Don’t talk to boys else we will get you married soon
- Do not venture out late at night
- Do not drink
- Report hour by hour incase you happen to party out with friends
While we are talking about modernization :
- Under age girls are sold to rich olds for marriage/pleasure
- Girls from poor countries are illegally thrown into prostitution
- Feticide is at peak in various states of India so much that the sex ratio has gone for new low
- Average age of female actor is 35–40 while male counterpart like Salman is still a super star in 50
For centuries our society has divided us on color, race, religion & sex. Even the holy religious books has different set of rules to follow for man and women.
Women are still treated as child production/breeding machine {some countries, religion}, without any say in family. Asking questions means death & then society and media calls it honor killing {not sure whose honor is getting killed here} .
I consider myself lucky that I grew up in an environment where Grandmama/Mothers/Sisters were pillars of my strength & motivation, I understand not everyone is so lucky.
Why is this division so deep rooted? Who do we have to blame for it?
- Our religion
- Gurus
- Literature
- Culture
- modern day idiot box
- Or each one of us?
Background for this post:
I am half way through Men Without Women: Stories by Haruki Murakami & it made me think & hence this post.