Conflict-Free Zone
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Conflict-Free Zone

Restoring trust in all your relationships

Ever have the fleeting thought that someone is out of integrity or trying to take advantage of you?

Believe it or not, these thoughts are a reflection of where we don’t trust ourselves. We redirect our own mistrust on another person so we can avoid looking at our own untrustworthiness (one of the sub-categories of that wonderful core belief of unworthiness).

Let me ‘splain myself.

Redirecting our own mistrust of ourselves lets us off the hook. We don’t have to delve into the darkness where these beliefs live…




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Paula Langguth Ryan

Paula Langguth Ryan

Minister, mediator, mom and more. An irreverent rev with a unconventional worldview: our connections with others make us feel separate, or so says our egos.

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