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The Midlife Relationship Revolution: How Women Over 40 Are Rewriting the Rules and Designing Their…
The Midlife Relationship Revolution: How Women Over 40 Are Rewriting the Rules and Designing Their…
Life on their terms: Why are women over 40 rewriting their relationship scripts? Just what are they up to? Is it working? Are we on the…
Julie Harris
Mar 24
Breaking the Silence: Why Expressing Desire Changes Everything
Breaking the Silence: Why Expressing Desire Changes Everything
Research shows we bury our deepest desires — and voicing them changes everything. Through intimate stories and groundbreaking findings …
Julie Harris
Mar 1
Rethinking Trauma and Love: How Conscious Relationship Design Can Help Us Heal
Rethinking Trauma and Love: How Conscious Relationship Design Can Help Us Heal
We’ve been told to fix ourselves before love — but emerging research shows healing happens in connection. The key? Not just with anyone —…
Julie Harris
Feb 13
The Role of Power Dynamics in Conscious Relationships
The Role of Power Dynamics in Conscious Relationships
Power shapes every relationship — whether we see it or not. What happens when we bring it into the light and design for it intentionally?
Julie Harris
Feb 6
Breaking the Mold: Society’s Taboos and the Reality of Polyamory
Breaking the Mold: Society’s Taboos and the Reality of Polyamory
The seventh in a series on Designing Love: Exploring Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy
Julie Harris
Sep 28, 2024
A Thousand Small Cuts: How Conscious Relationship Design Can Revitalise Long-term Relationships
A Thousand Small Cuts: How Conscious Relationship Design Can Revitalise Long-term Relationships
Frustrated wives, checked-out husbands: A different approach to breaking destructive relationship cycles
Julie Harris
Aug 27, 2024
Single and Thriving: Exploring Solo Living as a Conscious Relationship Design Choice
Single and Thriving: Exploring Solo Living as a Conscious Relationship Design Choice
Intentional singlehood and conscious relationship design. Can they lead to a fulfilling, remarkable life? The answer is a resounding “Yes!”
Julie Harris
Jul 24, 2024
Redefining Intimacy: Companionate Relationships, Tolyamory and the Spectrum of Non-Monogamy
Redefining Intimacy: Companionate Relationships, Tolyamory and the Spectrum of Non-Monogamy
The sixth in a series on Designing Love: Exploring Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy
Julie Harris
Jul 16, 2024
From Guesswork to Growth: The Empathy Canvas Method
From Guesswork to Growth: The Empathy Canvas Method
The second in a series on how Conscious Relationship Design works in practice
Julie Harris
Jul 1, 2024
The Seismic Shift: Navigating Manhood in the Modern Dating Landscape
The Seismic Shift: Navigating Manhood in the Modern Dating Landscape
Julie Harris
Jun 25, 2024
Navigating the Complexities: Challenges in Polyamorous Relationships
Navigating the Complexities: Challenges in Polyamorous Relationships
The fifth in a series on Designing Love: Exploring Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy
Julie Harris
Jun 18, 2024
Can We Really Design Our Relationships?
Can We Really Design Our Relationships?
Exploring Conscious Relationship Design — is it really possible?
Julie Harris
May 15, 2024
Designing Bonds: The Therapeutic Power of BDSM and Conscious Relationship Design
Designing Bonds: The Therapeutic Power of BDSM and Conscious Relationship Design
Exploring the therapeutic power of BDSM combined with Conscious Relationship Design — a journey from vulnerability to strength
Julie Harris
May 1, 2024
Conscious Relationship Design: How It Works
Conscious Relationship Design: How It Works
The first in a series on how Conscious Relationship Design works in practice
Julie Harris
Apr 16, 2024
Reimagining Bonds: Ethically Navigating a 20-Year Marriage Redesign
Reimagining Bonds: Ethically Navigating a 20-Year Marriage Redesign
Navigating the ethical tensions of ending a 20-year marriage contract through the lens of Conscious Relationship Design — making space for…
Julie Harris
Apr 12, 2024
The Cerebral Spark: Exploring Sapiosexuality and Conscious Relationship Design
The Cerebral Spark: Exploring Sapiosexuality and Conscious Relationship Design
Unlock the allure of the brilliant mind — an exploration of sapiosexuality and Conscious Relationship Design
Julie Harris
Apr 5, 2024
Your “One Wild and Precious Life” — And Another?
Your “One Wild and Precious Life” — And Another?
What would you do if you had three lives? What if you already do?
Julie Harris
Mar 11, 2024
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Julie Harris
Mar 10, 2024
Voices of Polyamory: Personal Journeys in Loving More Than One
Voices of Polyamory: Personal Journeys in Loving More Than One
The fourth in a series on Designing Love: Exploring Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy
Julie Harris
Mar 9, 2024
From Taboo to Truth: Conversations that Create Closer Connections
From Taboo to Truth: Conversations that Create Closer Connections
Unlock deeper connections with your partner, friends, family and wider community by opening the Box of Taboos through courageous…
Julie Harris
Feb 23, 2024
Beyond the Leash: Collaring and Conscious Relationship Design
Beyond the Leash: Collaring and Conscious Relationship Design
Discovering depth in devotion: Collaring as a testament to intention, trust and consent, another alternative relationship practice…
Julie Harris
Feb 5, 2024
Intimate Technology: Could a Robot Be Your Next Romantic Partner?
Intimate Technology: Could a Robot Be Your Next Romantic Partner?
Explore a provocative future where love intertwines with technology: delve into the world of sexbots and Conscious Relationship Design…
Julie Harris
Jan 26, 2024
Crafting Connections: Applying Conscious Relationship Design in Polyamory
Crafting Connections: Applying Conscious Relationship Design in Polyamory
The third in a series on Designing Love: Exploring Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy
Julie Harris
Jan 4, 2024
Love Multiplied: A Historical Perspective on Polyamory
Love Multiplied: A Historical Perspective on Polyamory
The second in a series on Designing Love: Exploring Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy
Julie Harris
Dec 6, 2023
Beyond Monogamy: An Introduction to Ethical Non-Monogamous Relationships
Beyond Monogamy: An Introduction to Ethical Non-Monogamous Relationships
The first in a series on Designing Love: Exploring Polyamory and Ethical Non-Monogamy
Julie Harris
Dec 2, 2023
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