On Phallic Masculinity and the Trouble with Being Hard All the Time

An erection that lasts longer than four hours is a medical problem and yet some men act hard their entire lives.

I would like to believe that there is more to being a man than acting like a dick but I am unfortunately unable to reach this conclusion.

If sex is the same as gender (i.e., if penis = male = man and vagina = female = woman), then being a man or a woman is based in acting like genitals. This notion is of…