The secret of surviving: purpose. Why do people have a purpose?
Why we have lifework? A purpose? The psychology of purpose (Frankl)
We have a purpose to survive. A purpose lets us live. We need a purpose to live.
The purpose is not slavery. Slavery is no purpose. So, we mean well-being, your personal development, your purpose. What you find a purpose. This is also a human right duty, that we let everyone be who they are, with their own conscientious, and ideas on who they are, and what they live for, and with the right to join, and right to not join.
The purpose in life is a “why” to life, and someone or something to live for. (John Templeton Foundation, 2018)
(Peterson, 2018) Find a purpose in life.
How to achieve the purpose.
For who do you live?
A human is surviving, and random with who they are left with. Many died in life, and the ones left, is how life is (Harari, N.D.).
Children survive because of warmth, before oxygen, water, food, etc. Before any other basic need. So, love seems a warmth, a reason to live as well. A way to survive.
No one is allowed to separate kids from their parents(Ruggiero, et al, N.D.). Science showed children need to be with their mother, parents, and extension of the home.
So, you live with a heart, and your own dreams, talents, feelings, and own experience of life and God, and purpose.
We do need to keep you warm and make sure you survive, everyone is born with human rights. We also need to help you achieve your wishes. You decide on who and how you live. We do have well-being(Santos, N.D.)when living autonomous, authentic and with your own unique self, as you are born as a variation of the norm. First, totally depending, and over time, independent. Able to take care of the dependent, yourself.
A good purpose comes from high literacy, high literacy lets the crime rate drop. Low literacy is linked to crimes (DeRue et al, N.D.).
Honor codes also make crime rates drop. Same as good people in jobs as examples, never going wrong, never going into crimes.
85% of people want kindness. 15% of all people around the world have other motives. 1% is a psychopath (DeRue, et al, N.D.). Most people have a good purpose. All are variations of the norm, and left with who they are left, and with their own idea and experiences, and their heart. Their own preferences.
The mind gets all sensations from the environment through the senses, and what they can store in the brain, goes through the working memory, and in the working memory first to the episodic memory, to your preferences, than to facts/ semantic and procedural memory (Seamon, N.D.).
Kids first and families first duty and human rights as a duty, thus purpose.
We must do ethics, human rights, science, and SEL, and have our own purpose, but we always have to do kids first and help them achieve their will, their wishes they need us for. We have the duty to help them achieve what they want. Families we must protect, human rights are made for everyone, but families come first, we protect them from violations of human rights because we come from families, that way we protect all people, and acknowledge we all start life from families.
We are not owned by governments, they must provide all basic needs. We only have the duty to do human rights. So, this is a part of our purpose in life.
Child psychology and basic development.
Finding your best friends and colleagues.
The psychology of purpose
The purpose in life test (Crumbaugh & Maholick, 1964)
Review on purpose
Purpose in life for men.
Authoritative raised, are not having ODD, authoritarian raised are. (Joordens, N.D.)
When you do your best, you will find the truth and why you live.
I think, when you have the goal to find the best, and have the best, and do the best, you will create the best circumstances. Especially when we arrange that for all on earth. We then can think. We then can do research and find the best answers. You will then have proof of why you live, or why one should live. Continue the best input, so you will know. If you have bad input, you will change your actual mind, into a worse thinking mind, less surviving, less aware of what it really thinks, and feels. It is less true, and more ill.
So, when we raise authoritatively we create no DSM, and we are sophisticated and equal to others, and able to become independent, and when grown we take care of depending, so, we actually always find purpose.
Our minds kept whole, or at least given the best, to think, to find out who we are.
