Crow’s Feet: A Wrinkle is Worth a Thousand Smiles

Welcoming a face — and life — worn out by abundant joy

Ria Tagulinao
Crow’s Feet

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How a Crow’s Feet-inducing moment looks like | 2014 | Photo courtesy of the author

“Here comes her fake smile,” my parents would tease when it was time for picture-taking. They were talking about me.

As a little girl then, I didn’t understand what they meant. As far as I knew, I was smiling the way all the adults did: with my mouth stretched wide, lips parted, and my teeth — at least the ones I had — flashing. That is how you do it, right?

But as I grew up, I began to see it. Sure, my mouth was in a grin, but you couldn’t see my supposed joy across my face. My childhood pictures, cute as I was back then, looked as if I had been forced to be in that moment, forced to smile for the photo.

I’m sure that wasn’t the case! I just didn’t know then that smiling with your lips is only half of it. I had not yet learned that what makes a genuine smile is one’s eyes.

Recently, I noticed in my selfies that there’s a short, fine line extending from the outer corner of my eyes. The crease is subtle in some photos, and deeper in others. At first, I thought, cool, I look like I have winged eyeliners! So, whilst stuck in traffic like every other car-owning Filipino in Metro Manila, I thought I’d share my amusement on Instagram. (Well, with my Close Friends, at least.)

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Ria Tagulinao
Crow’s Feet

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