Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.

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AGING/DATING/LOVE

Finding Love After Heartache in Your Golden Years

In search of one more chance

Klara Jane Holloway
Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age
6 min readJul 1, 2024

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passion led us here sign on ground with man and woman standing over it
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I’ve always been a hopeless romantic.

My history of love took some twists and turns, but I loved truly and madly and felt that love in return. I know I’m fortunate to be able to say that.

Some people give up on love by choice. Past hurts keep them from pursuing what seems close to impossible: finding a person to spend the rest of their lives with. Others have given themselves to love, tried it, and settled for less than they desired to have a mate and become a couple.

Having known valuable and joyful love and then lost it after three decades, I could not imagine living the rest of my life without it. So, I started on a long and arduous road to find that forever partner again.

My readers know my multiple stories of online dating, meeting very few men in real-life situations, and being “fixed up” with someone’s friend, brother, and even father — good men with too many issues, scammers, players, weirdos, and just plain liars. I believe I’ve written at least 20 stories about my adventures in the abyss of being single and over 65.

I’m sorry to say I had zero success. A proper mate has alluded me.

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Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age
Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

Published in Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.

Klara Jane Holloway
Klara Jane Holloway

Written by Klara Jane Holloway

I write about my experiences in life. Some mundane, some sad, some funny, and hopefully none boring!

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