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Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.

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OLD PROS

I Hired a 50-Year-Old Waiter After Asking Him Exactly One Question

Sometimes the answer to one question tells the whole story

5 min readApr 9, 2024

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An older waiter with grey hair dressed in formal attire while carrying a tray with dishes and standing in an elegant restaurant.
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I love old pros

Paul was about 50 years old when he walked into my office for his server interview and I could tell right away that he was an old pro. They have a quiet confidence that only comes with decades of experience and ingrained knowledge. An old pro needs virtually zero training. Just hand them a menu and a floor plan, give them a computer login, and get out of their way.

Twelve years ago I was the general manager of a hip restaurant that had just opened in a beach town in San Diego, California. Pacific Beach is a casual community where the standard dining experience is a cute girl with well-displayed boobs serving you a pitcher of beer with a bucket of chicken wings on the side. Not that there’s anything wrong with all that, but we were out to elevate the status quo for the neighborhood. With a funky global wine list, local craft beer, fancy-schmancy cocktails, and not one single chicken wing on the menu, that neighborhood took notice. Things were looking up at the beach.

For the initial hiring, I knew I had to break the beach = boobs + beer curse that hung over the zip code like a lead parasail. To…

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Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age
Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

Published in Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.

Sheila Tracy
Sheila Tracy

Written by Sheila Tracy

I ride motorcycles and I drink wine, but not at the same time. I’m not a writer by trade but sometimes I have something to say.

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