Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.

Member-only story

I Never Expected This in Retirement

Kathleen Murphy
Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age
7 min readJul 7, 2024

--

Image generated by the author using Freepik

When I mark my 65th birthday next month, I’ll hardly be alone. Every day, more than 11,000 Americans turn 65 — part of the massive group of 71.6 million Baby Boomers born in the years following World War II.

I’ve always considered myself a Boomer. But as a late one, born between 1957 and 1964, I learned that I belong to a tagalong cohort called Generation Jones.

According to Jonathan Pontell, who named this sub-generation, “Jonesers” absorbed a powerful sense of idealism in the optimistic 1960s. But as we came of age in the pessimistic ‘70s and ‘80s, our moods morphed into an unrequited craving — a “Jonesing,” as he called it.

This craving presents differently for everyone. Mine lay dormant while I was busy building my career. But when I hit retirement, it crept in — just as Pontell had predicted.

Every generation is affected by the headlines of its formative years. To better understand what brought me to this niggling place of dissatisfaction, I decided to look back at the major milestones of my life.

The highlights reel: Childhood

--

--

Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age
Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

Published in Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.

Kathleen Murphy
Kathleen Murphy

Written by Kathleen Murphy

Health journalist & essayist offering insights into physical & emotional wellness and successful aging. Subscribe: https://kathleenamurphy.medium.com/subscribe