I Thought I Was Too Old for a New Best Friend

Pat Aube Gray
Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age
4 min readJul 3, 2023

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I was wrong.

Photo by Steven HWG on Unsplash

The sun swallows the last of a lingering fog and unveils an unblemished cobalt sky, taking with it the chill of the early morning air. The entrance to the meticulously maintained park and certain areas along the roadway inside are beautifully landscaped. Faded blue and green hydrangeas still hold fast and late blooming azaleas are covered in pale and deep pink blooms. Spring and summer flowers are replaced by orange, russet, and red zinnias and mounds of cadmium yellow mums announcing the coming of autumn. A gaggle of Canadian geese peck at the ground on a grassy hillside as they waddle their way, single file, toward the creek that runs through the park.

It is September 11th, and, despite its sad significance, it is an incredibly lovely day. There are more visitors in the park today than usual, many congregating at a distant ball field for a somber commemoration of the thousands of lives lost over two decades ago. The sporadic keen of a bagpipe carries through the fragrant air and an occasional errant skirl makes me wince. My new friend, Rosie, and I walk the wooded path skirting the shallow creek rushing to meet the river. The fast-flowing water, runoff from the surrounding mountains, carries a few free-loading mallards as it cascades over big rocks, splashes, froths, and gurgles and winds its way through the woods making…

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Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age
Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

Published in Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.

Pat Aube Gray
Pat Aube Gray

Written by Pat Aube Gray

Artist, writer, knitter, reader, news junkie, pickleballer, business world retiree, wife and mother, wrestling each day with what to do first

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