Life in the Extreme

What if we experienced each moment to the fullest, unafraid to live and unafraid to die?

Helen Bartley
Crow’s Feet

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Collage illustration by Helen Bartley

Being beautiful on the inside usually alludes to the spirit within.

As we age, we strive to make peace with ourselves and the world — to cultivate a sense of empathy, find our spiritual paths. And yes, to feel good in our own skin, despite the wrinkles and the pranks played by gravity.

I feel pretty good about the human I’ve become over the years though it’s important to remember we are all “works in progress” until the end.

But inside — really deep inside — my bones and muscles and organs and…well, they’ve taken quite a beating.

I’ll begin with the the bad news.

I’ve had breast cancer five times in the last twenty-eight years — including Stage IV metastatic disease in my right lung.

Now the good news.

Not only have I survived, but I’ve lived a pretty great life and continue to do so.

I was first diagnosed when I was in my late 30s. Genetic testing was not yet available but the prevalence of the disease in my family led me to believe I could eventually be among those afflicted.

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Helen Bartley
Crow’s Feet

Visual & verbal communicator. Global thinker with a personal perspective. Making sense of the senseless.