Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

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On This Day 160 Years Ago

Cat Strav
Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age
3 min readJul 11, 2024

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A grave marker reads “Luther D Crowell, son of Daniel & Caroline, died July 11, 1864. Aged 16 years.”

It just so happens to be July 11, 160 years after this boy’s death. I have lived almost four times longer than this young man. There is no date of birth, nor explanation of his passing.

In 1864, with the Civil War raging, new recruits in the Connecticut 29th regiment were sent to New Haven to train for the Civil War.

Was Luther one? At 16, it was highly likely.

We have this from another recruit as they left in March to fight further south:

“White and colored ladies and gentlemen grasped me by the hand, with tears streaming down their cheeks…expressing the hope that we might have a safe return.” — Soldier J.J. Hill

If Luther marched in that parade, unfortunately, he was not spared in the Battle for Richmond, which cost thousands of lives and lasted from June 1864 until April 1865.

What about Caroline and Daniel? They waited at home, presumably. Or not. Had they buried their son, wouldn’t the date of his birth be on the stone?

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Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age
Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

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“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.

Cat Strav
Cat Strav

Written by Cat Strav

Yogi. Wordsmith. Hutch Pup. Diagnosed with I.O. (idiotic optimism) since an early age.

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