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Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.

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Death and Retirement

What Do Americans Fear More Than Death?

Shocking but true

3 min readMay 9, 2025

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I’m retired now and thank God, I had a self-administered retirement plan when I was in the real estate business.

When I started, I did a lot of the grunt work of construction: hammering, painting, floor sanding, rudimentary rehabbing, myself.

My father-in-law (Frank) a 60-some year old retired insurance executive drove into work with me. At the time I paid him $50 a day as an independent contractor.

He made himself available to do some of the work I couldn’t do. And on one occasion, wouldn’t do.

As far as I know, he didn’t need the money. His pension from Metropolitan, a huge insurance provider, was as good as gold and allowed for his wife and him in a style to which they’ve become accustomed throughout the years.

They should have no money worries.

Out the window

One afternoon I noticed a break in the casing of a third floor front window of a property we were working on. I dreaded the necessity of having to rent a 40 foot ladder in order to access the problem area. I have a fear of heights.

But something had to be done.

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Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age
Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

Published in Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” (Frank Lloyd Wright) Non-fiction pieces, personal essays and occasional poems that explore how we feel about how we age and offer tips for getting the most out of life.

Brian Dickens Barrabee
Brian Dickens Barrabee

Written by Brian Dickens Barrabee

Very much involved with the world and likes nothing better than writing about its absurdities. Award winning author who guarantees a laugh or two a story.

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