10 Simple Ways to Be More Likable in Any Social Setting

These psychological tricks are proven to help you impress.

Liv Mello
Curious

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Photo by Chang Duong on Unsplash

Everyone likes being liked. Whether you’re new to a job, trying to impress someone you like, or meeting their parents, life is full of social scenarios that overwhelm and stress us out. Overthinking what to say or how to behave is completely normal. Some people are difficult to crack. They can be biased and hard to impress. They might possess different cultural beliefs that make it impossible to see eye to eye. Being likable seems out of our hands, but it’s not.

These ten social tips and tricks are designed to help guide you through life’s most critical moments with confidence and ease.

1. Dip your toes before diving headfirst

If you’re in a social situation with people you’ve never met before, you might want to test the waters before diving headfirst. Reading the energy of a room will help you understand how to stand out. Pacing yourself might be helpful, even for those who feel ready to engage immediately. Remember, you don’t want to swallow up the spotlight, you want to shine in it.

So, try taking five to ten minutes to read the room. Sit back, maybe grab yourself a drink, and observe the dynamic. When you observe, you’ll…

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Liv Mello
Curious

Freelancing advice and figuring out how to be happy. Check out my work at livmello.com