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3 Reasons Writing Makes You More Attractive

How to write your way into someone’s heart.

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The first “personal essays” I ever wrote were text messages to a girl in high school who I had a huge crush on.

I was 15, and she wanted to know more about me, so I gave her everything. I told her about my hopes, dreams, insecurities — everything she wanted to know and more. It was the first…




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