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4 Reasons Dating Isn’t Working for You

Tired of all those mediocre dates? Me too.

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I met a girl at a bar last night. We matched on Bumble. We were talking about our dating lives when she asked me, “So how’s your Tinder experience so far?”

I gave her a knowing smile. We both laughed when she realized her mistake. She’s using several dating apps at the same time, and she’s been on too…




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John Pucay

John Pucay

Author of Karinderya Love Songs; a 2020s dating and sex literary fiction novel: More stories at

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