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How to Escape Either/Or Thinking and Make Better Choices

5 methods for finding a third option

Graphic by author in Canva, from image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay.

“If I could get used to the idea of never doing anything important, and never changing the world in a meaningful way? I think I could be happy.”

My husband’s announcement took me by surprise. We were driving home from spending the evening with our friends. I expected him to comment…




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Jennifer Dunne

Jennifer Dunne

Regular contributor to The Daily Cuppa & Dancing Elephants Press📚Author of fiction and non-fiction🎓Getting PhD in Metaphysics✏️Topics: cats, positivity & life

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