HAPPINESS

How to Escape the Tyranny of Expectations

The gap between vision and reality makes you unhappy

Frustrated young lady working on laptop
Frustrated young lady working on laptop
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“Unhappiness is best defined as the difference between our talents and our expectations.” — Edward de Bono

Expectations have hurt me

Your expectations of others

“I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.” — Bruce Lee

Their expectations of you

“I do know one thing about me: I don’t measure myself by others’ expectations or let others define my worth.” — Sonia Sotomayor

Your expectations for yourself

“I never go into a situation with any type of expectations.” — Kevin Gates

I know, it’s easier said than done

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