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How to Talk to Yourself So You Will Listen

And listen to yourself so you will talk

A self-confident woman looks into a mirror, created by the author on Midjourney

The above headline comes from the title of a parenting book. How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk is a bestselling book written by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. It was first published in 1980 and has since been widely popular among parents, educators, and child-care professionals.



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Nihan Kucukural

Turkish copywriter and screenwriter based in New Zealand. I am addicted to stories. I write screenwriting/copywriting advice and occasional funny stuff.