In Praise of Older Siblings
Through sheer dumb luck, you might enjoy the benefits of going last.
I have an older brother and an older sister, by 6 and 8 years respectively. It’s common wisdom to recognize that the baby of the household is spoiled, the center of attention... but one of the less widely discussed benefits is that having older siblings lets you see into the future. The phenomenon is real.
It takes a few forms.
First, most obviously, in your younger years they’ve just completed all the grades of school you’re entering. You have the benefit of their textbooks and notes, and sometimes even them, for homework help. If you go to the same school as they did, whatever impression they left on their teachers will be unearned by you. If they were trouble, you’re going to have a tough road. But if they were impressive, as mine seem to have been, you are a fond reminder and can bask in that glow. An unbelievable benefit over even your more academic peers.
When my brother was studying for the SAT, I would help come up with silly mnemonics, flip index cards, and quiz him. How could I help but learn ridiculous vocabulary like “laconic.” That’s an unintended consequence.
Siblings also introduce you to things, giving you a leg up — their interests may or may not become yours, but…
