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Lessons in Love: What I’d Do Differently Now

We get a do-better, not a do-over

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My life didn’t turn out the way I planned. I didn’t anticipate divorce or single parenting, but I also didn’t predict that I could ever make a living as a writer or find a town that felt like home. It’s been a mix of good things and bad things — a life like any other, I suppose. But if I’m honest, I must admit that I’m disappointed…




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Crystal Jackson

Crystal Jackson

Former therapist. Author, Heart of Madison series. Poet.

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